
Comfort over stress
- Samantha Slabbert
- Oct 5
- 1 min read
šø Why You Shouldnāt Take Away Your Toddlerās Dummy During Big Life Changes šø
For a toddler, a dummy isnāt just a habit ā itās comfort, safety, and emotional regulation in one small item š
When your 2ā3-year-old is potty training and adjusting to a new baby, taking away their dummy can actually cause more stress than progress.
Hereās why š
š Emotional security matters
Their dummy helps them feel safe and calm when big feelings or changes happen. Losing it now can feel like losing their āsafe space.ā
š§ Too much change = overload
Potty training + new sibling + no dummy = emotional meltdown territory š
Keeping the dummy a bit longer gives them the stability they need.
š½ Regression is real (and normal)
If we push too fast, toddlers can slip back ā more accidents, more tears, less sleep. A bit of comfort goes a long way.
š Wait for readiness
Once your little one is more settled, you can start gently phasing out the dummy:
⨠Only at nap/bedtime
⨠Let them help (āThe Dummy Fairy will visit!ā)
⨠Offer a soft toy or blanket instead
Remember ā youāre not giving in, youāre tuning in. š
At Play-Ed Zone, we believe in connection over pressure and learning through love and play. š
Every stage is precious ā letās nurture it gently.







