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Comfort over stress

  • Writer: Samantha Slabbert
    Samantha Slabbert
  • Oct 5
  • 1 min read

🌸 Why You Shouldn’t Take Away Your Toddler’s Dummy During Big Life Changes 🌸


For a toddler, a dummy isn’t just a habit — it’s comfort, safety, and emotional regulation in one small item šŸ’•


When your 2–3-year-old is potty training and adjusting to a new baby, taking away their dummy can actually cause more stress than progress.


Here’s why šŸ‘‡


šŸ’­ Emotional security matters

Their dummy helps them feel safe and calm when big feelings or changes happen. Losing it now can feel like losing their ā€œsafe space.ā€


🧠 Too much change = overload

Potty training + new sibling + no dummy = emotional meltdown territory šŸ˜…

Keeping the dummy a bit longer gives them the stability they need.


🚽 Regression is real (and normal)

If we push too fast, toddlers can slip back — more accidents, more tears, less sleep. A bit of comfort goes a long way.


šŸ’ž Wait for readiness

Once your little one is more settled, you can start gently phasing out the dummy:

✨ Only at nap/bedtime

✨ Let them help (ā€œThe Dummy Fairy will visit!ā€)

✨ Offer a soft toy or blanket instead


Remember — you’re not giving in, you’re tuning in. 🌈


At Play-Ed Zone, we believe in connection over pressure and learning through love and play. šŸ’•

Every stage is precious — let’s nurture it gently.


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